docs: kernel-datapath family review pass — accuracy fixes and pinned claims

A correctness read-through of the five delivered datapath documents, plus
the two code comments that carried the same stale vocabulary.

Datapath selection: the VendorDockerVM selector is `console_type=docker_exec`
alone (`GNS3_SKIP_INIT` and friends are behavior knobs of the chosen class);
the cross-compute and anchor-less fallbacks are named for what they are; the
Ethernet-switch endpoint is the documented exception to the anchoring rule,
and the IOL runner container is called out as the Docker node that does not
anchor on a veth.

Filter vocabulary: the stateful eBPF program evaluates four modes
(nth → quota → window → flow), GNS3 exposes three of them, and window_drop
joins the kernel-only list; the correl suffixes gate on the `rate` token as
the extension-build marker.

group_fwd_mask: the 0xfffd port mask is applied inside uBridge's `brctl addif`
itself, not as a separate command — the link-creation sequences and the
operation tables no longer show an arrow the server never sends. Same class
of fix for `link set up` on the IOL anchor (addif already brought it up; the
command only pushes a suspended anchor back down) and for the QEMU carrier
replication (QMP `set_link`, gated by `replicate_network_connection_state`).

Lifecycles and stop orders re-worded around the invariant rather than the
node type: the fd holder must release before the devices are deleted, which
is QEMU's process-first order, IOU's uBridge-first order and Dynamips'
hypervisor-NIO-first order. Deferred wiring for a stopped endpoint is
documented as the common path it is, and the Dynamips "stop is not a close"
note now says what recovery from a dead hypervisor actually requires.

Dynamips specifics: a c7200 needs an adapter in slot 1 (slot 0 is the fixed
I/O slot), the tap-fd direction is stated correctly (writes inject into the
kernel, reads return what the kernel transmits), and the anchor registry is
name-keyed against the controller's port matrix by convention, not derivation.

IOL port bridge naming: `bridge{bay}` on unit 0, `bridge{bay}_{unit}`
elsewhere; the leg swap happens on link delete/re-create or a datapath
switch, while suspend is an in-place NIO update and a project reopen is a
fresh build.

Verified and Roadmap sections: the in-repo e2e suite is distinguished from
the isolated-instance development harness (IOU), assertions are stated with
their bounds and capability gates, and the roadmap entries collapse into the
one remaining project — VXLAN/GENEVE for cross-compute links.

Code comments: `flow` added to the documented mode order in the eBPF apply
path, and the `nio_bridge` module docstring corrected on which filter types
run on the kernel datapath (bpf via cls_bpf, frequency_drop/quota/window_drop
via the eBPF classifier — neither is relay-only any more).

gns3server/compute/kernel_datapath.py

@@ -616,7 +616,7 @@ class KernelDatapathMixin:
         and the kernel-only ``window_drop`` type the time-window mode
         (``tc window_drop``: single outage, or recurring flaps with an
         optional per-cycle jitter). The program evaluates the modes in the
-        fixed order nth → quota → window. A mode is only sent when
+        fixed order nth → quota → window → flow. A mode is only sent when
         ``tc capabilities`` declares its token (``ebpf_modes``); builds
         predating the field keep their shipped modes (everything but
         window).